3 Reasons Why You Should Have a Love Song for Yourself

As I lay here in excitement about sharing this magic with you I see my favorite numbers…11:11. The universe is sending me messages affirming the positivity in the message that will be brought to you.

Come get all of this love!

The other day, as I pranced around to my favorite songs on iTunes for the first time I heard the lyrics and I almost cried. I could feel the words move through me and the message was instantaneous and clear…this is my love song.Your love song???


Yes, a song that spoke about my kind of love from me to me; a true valentine. I was living in pure awe and I took the time to bask in all that the moment offered me.

All I could think about was whether or not anyone else implemented this intentional self-love act into their regime.

So here are 3 reasons why you should have a love song for yourself…

One: You are the love of your life!


You are the very first person you know intimately in your sacred space.

As I continued on this journey in life I felt like there was no room for all the other relationships I had to keep up with. I didn’t realize that I was begging for the same attention that I gave to everyone else.

As I continued on this journey in life I felt like there was no room for all the other relationships I had to keep up with. I didn’t realize that I was begging for the same attention that I gave to everyone else.

Once I started to listen to my needs I could hear clearly what I was asking for and I could then provide it. At the base of all of my pain was me! I realized I wasn’t very kind to myself and I needed to hear myself say “I Love You”.

What better way is there to celebrate self than with a song that reminds me of the grace of my own love!

Two : The love you have to offer starts within!


How are you aware of what love feels like to be given and received if you have never experienced it for yourself?

I realized that I wasn’t confident in my beliefs about what I wanted from love because I wasn’t connected with self. My external and internal flow was all jacked up but for good reasons. I am learning first hand what I like and dislike so that I can be just that. I now know I needed to be the example for both external and internal love. Reserving 3 or 4 songs gives me a moment for self to set the intent to feel this connected flow of love manifesting distantly in someone else’s heart.

Three: Music can realign self when becoming imbalanced.


Music has been known to release a hormone called dopamine in your brain also called the “feel good hormone”.

Need I say more? Music is the dose of the Dr. Feel Good I need and that is fact.

Here are the songs I chose for myself:


Love You by SiR

Blind Man by Xavier Omär

Best Part ft. H.E.R by Daniel Caesar

If you practice this on the daily basis kudos to you for immersing yourself in your love. I would love for you to share your special songs in the comments below.

If you do not have that special song for you that’s okay because one will come to you very soon. When you do find your songs tag me on twitter and with the 3 songs you chose. I would love to hear from you!

Here are some articles about music and its effect on the brain:


What Making Music Does to Your Brain on TED

8 Surprising Ways Music Affect and Benefits our Brains

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Shan Bae

My name is Shan Bae. I am a 25 year old artist and creative writer from Kansas City, MO. I am also the small business owner of Insaei Healing which translates into True Healing. I hand make jewelry using gemstones that have the ability to help aid in the healing of the chakras in the human body. I am also a Reiki Energy Healer and I use this powerful energy source to charge the gemstones in my jewelry. For more information or to purchase a choker please head over to http://insaeihealingshop.com. I am open to connect and network with people who are interested in working with me. I would love to collaborate with other poets or bloggers. You are always welcome to send me a message via the “send a love letter” page on my blog. Send inquiries to: contact@shanbae.com

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